When it comes to planning a wedding, everyone loves sharing tips and tales from their big day – even that of Auntie Carol, who tied the knot in 1987! But not all advice has aged like a fine wine. So, to save you the legwork and the potential stress, I’ve put together the top 10 wedding regrets that couples often wish they’d known to dodge. Here’s your guide to a regret-free wedding day, in no particular order.


1. Not Setting a Budget

A budget helps you keep spending in check. Yes, you might still go a bit over, but a clear budget will help you avoid all those “must-have” extras that you’ll hardly remember a year from now. Be ruthless about what matters most and keep an eye on the big picture.


2. NOT HAVING Comfy Shoes

Those towering heels look fabulous in photos, but by the time you hit the dance floor, they may feel more like torture devices. Slip a pair of flats into your bag (or bring a stash for your guests) so you’re ready to dance the night away pain-free. Your feet – and your guests – will thank you.


3. Not Taking a Moment Together

Your wedding day will fly by. Take 10 minutes just for you two to soak it all in. Trust me, those quiet moments will be some of the sweetest memories from your day.

4. NOT BOOKING A Videographer

Time and time again, couples tell me they regret not investing in a brilliant videographer. There’s nothing quite like looking back on those moments, captured forever. Do your research and pick a videographer whose style you adore – it’s worth every penny.


5. NOT MAKING A Speech

If you’ve got something to say, don’t leave all the talking to tradition. It’s your day, after all, grab the mic and share a few words – heartfelt, funny or both. It’s a moment you won’t regret.


6. NOT TRUSTING Your Suppliers

This is a big one: trust your suppliers. While Pinterest and Instagram can offer plenty of inspiration, remember that you’ve hired your suppliers because of their talent. Let them bring your unique vision to life rather than copying someone else’s. Trust them to be creative and you’ll get the best of their work.


7. Not Being Ruthless with the Guest List

This is your day, and it should be filled with people who genuinely make you happy. Don’t feel pressured to invite people you barely know just to keep the peace. A smaller, joyous guest list will mean more personal moments and less stress on the day.


8. WORRYING About the Weather

Yes, it’s the UK – it could rain, snow or shine at any moment. Have a plan B, and then let it go. There’s nothing more “British” than embracing the weather as it is, and it’s all part of the charm. So relax, have those umbrellas at the ready, and let your day unfold.


9. Not Setting Boundaries with the Mother-in-Law

Your wedding should reflect your tastes, not someone else’s idea of tradition. If you don’t want an eight tier fruit wedding cake or have a lavender-clad bridal party, stand firm (with a bit of diplomacy). It’s your day, so make it true to you.


10. Not Hiring a Wedding Planner

If you want to eliminate stress and actually enjoy your big day, investing in a wedding planner is the way to go. A good planner will help you prioritise the experience and make sure the day runs smoothly – allowing you to stay fully present with each other and your guests.

If you’re about to walk down the aisle, remember this: no wedding is perfect, by sidestepping these common regrets, you’ll be one step closer to an unforgettable day that’s truly yours.


Plan well, laugh lots and savour every single moment. If you need a hand or a sounding board, don’t hesitate to get in touch with me at Katie Lou Weddings. X